The provision of an unmarried mother and her child

A lot of young women around the world are facing the problem of unmarried pregnancy in their early stage of womanhood. Generally the educated and working class face this kind of problem rather than the poorer section of the society. According to some nonofficial report in the metros the rate of abortion is higher them the small towns. Minimum percentage of that number goes to the proper medical professional and other go to some low quality unqualified Doctors. A local doctor says that young teenagers and divorced wife come for abortion. One third of the total abortion cases are unmarried. But this kind of case is a older as the marriage system. The difference is that the society support a married woman to become a mother and an unmarried mother don’t get the social status like others. An unmarried mother has to face a lot of difficulties in their daily living and in course of pregnancy. The origin of the words ‘Kumari Maa’ in Hindi means an unmarried mother. This proves that the rule is very old in the society. She has no respect in the society. If some one in the Vedic age becomes pregnant due to unconscious relation she was departed from all kind of social customs and she was known as a character less person in the society. The leader of the society gave that kind of punishment to her and her family.

But, if we make a research on the life history of the great writer, Bayash who wrote the epic Mahabharat, we’ll find he is a son of an unmarried daughter of a fisherman. A Manish loved her and He was born in a fisherman’s house. Karan is also a son of unmarried mother Kunti.

In the 13^th century the problem of teenage pregnancy was increased in India due the social condition and low stand of living for the women. Teenage unmarried mothers were sent to the orphanage during the pregnancy and the children got care in those orphanages. The number of unmarried mother and orphan children are increasing not only in India but allover the world. The condition is not so bed in the villages. The social structure in Indian villages is not supportive to grow this kind of problem. In the cities women are living alone and their age is over in respect of marriage time. So they believe in some kind of relation with their partner and regardless about the future complicacy. As a result they become pregnant. Men are also sometime doing that without taking any responsibility. They promise to young women for marriage life and made relations. In future they brake that promise and not ready to take the responsibility of the baby. This kind of man has no right for his child and the mother is the guardian of that child till he or she is 18 years old. This is not a encouragement for the unmarried mothers. Some kind of women like to be independent and they use men as their toy and after being a unmarried she wants some kind of financial return from her older friend. We want a society where every child has the right to grow up with all kind of respect and facility.

 

Love is a medicine for Depression

Depression spoiled all happy moments of our living. Millions of people around the world are the worst victim of depression. Live7n is dedicated to present them laughter. We know million of non English speaking people are reading the website. They’ll easily understand the meaning of this post as a friend’s letter. Be a live7n’s friend and get rid of you any kind of depression. You can write to us about your any Personal problem. Why you can’t laugh? Why you forget smiling? Only love can solve all your reason of grief and sadness.

 

Answer two simple questions? What is your love? Who love you most?

It is none but You. I love myself and it is true for everyone in the universe. It is true for cats, dogs and any animal in the universe.  A lot of people are searching a job in the Internet. So their reason for depression is that they are not getting the right job. Others are trying to catch other people for their own profit.  I meet a lot of kid they spend all of their pocket money in the Internet gaming. But are they happy with that? The answer is negative. Why this is an unending process for gaining the success? We have forgotten to love ourselves.

 

We human being, are the best creature of the universe. Eating, drinking and sleeping is not the main duty of life. An ordinary animal could also do that. If we think that, in this life we have to achieve a lot, and so we have the freedom to do any that then we are in the darkness.

 

The light of this life is in the presence in everybody’s mind not by loving a single Personal of a single profession in the world.

 

I meet a lot of people everyday and ask them why you are sad. Some people are unhappy as they have no money and some people say that they have no job. It is not truth, when I ask them whether you starving, today. They say no. I also meet so called success people in this part of the world and asked the same question again. They also say that they are not happy. You are earning much money and wealth every day. But do you have any compassion for yourself? Party, nightlife, and long drive everything makes your life just like the life of a clock’s hand.  

 Make a little bit of time for your self and feel a complete relax for just half an hour. You have a lot of knowledge and power shares it with other people. Next morning when you meet some one first make a lovely smile in his of her face. You may not know her well. Still, try to meet the unknown Person with a happy face. The unknown face will act just like a mirror and you’ll find the happiness in his or her face. Practice this for a few days and than tell me where is your Depression.

 

 

 

Oppression from People who love you

We believe that, men only get oppression from those who hate them. The heartless people oppress other poor people. But there is another kind of people, who are more tormenter to us. We often forget them all. They are the people who love us more. They have the right to oppress us. If I love you then, it is not essential that you must be belonging to my community. It is not necessary that, you’ll follow my entire requests. You needn’t to think like me. People who love you, they don’t request you for such a job that yields unhappiness. Often we see that the partnership of two people doesn’t last for long time. In such a condition, the person has all right to follow the words of his own mind. We have to identify all those matters that create sadness in our living. Without hampering other anyone can do anything he likes. We get hardly any example of an individual who opposed the Oppression of love. If you have a keen eye to watch a family, you’ll surely find a huge verity of oppression of love. Father, mother, sister, brother, husband, wife, boyfriend, girl friend everybody are some how effect by this reason. You are grown up now and your father is not ready to give the responsibility of his office. He loves you more than anyone else. But you need to establish soon and start your own business. It is an oppression of your father’s love for the son. Someone is financially poor and get a job with a high pay package in a foreign company. His mother does let him go there. This stop in his career made his a lifelong poor. This is another example of oppression of mother’s love. Anyway, human life is full of oppression of love. In the ancient age the strong people oppress the weak people. We heard the story of oppressing king in the history books. Harassed people dethrone the king and enthrone the right one. But, hear you can’t do this. Man becomes a machine. We use a machine for our personal use. Knowing the process of using a tool, people feel comfortable to complete his job at the right time.  If any one knows how to use a person one can easily earn the success by means of others.

 

A Lovers’ Guide to Love

Love is an inseparable issue of human life. We can not reject it from our life. It is something that comes spontaneously and naturally in anyone’s life. We needn’t give any extra effort to get love in life. A Man blames woman and confused about the woman he love. Similarly a woman also say men are selfish, they don’t know how to love. For women this confusion is higher than men. Failure in love causes a huge problem in family and society.  After marriage of the central character in an Indian Movie, it is written by the director that they happily live ever after. But, in real life, the couple needs the whole married life to understand each other.

Lord Chesterfield said, “Love is two minutes, fifty-two seconds of squishing noises. it shows your mind isn’t clicking right.”

 Every body are not born lover. You need to achieve some quality to become a good lover. The top three qualities of a love are understanding, passion, and sensitivity. Sometime we have a wrong idea about understanding. We feel it is some thing like sharing the same cup of tea with others. But, it is not exactly like that. It is just putting you in someone else’s shoes. It is more and more applicable for men.

 

If we don’t have proper sensitivity, it is a kind of emotional disorder. You can overcome these factors also to be a good lover. Passion is only a small part of our living. It is always different for every individual. Every relationship is meaningless without love. When love is added in any subject of your life, it blossoms. When two individual come together and live together, this is not the only way to enjoy love. You can hardly find any consultant or an institution the can train you to become a successful love and thereby you won the world’s best lover title. It is a life long journey to prove you how great lover you are.

 

Idiot fly and wise Spider

SPIDER | Dear fly please come to my home. Last night, I web my net. I clean all the dirt from my home. Please welcome to my home. You’ll feel free, if you visit here.

FLY | its O.K. don’t say this kind of words. Everybody knows your business. If anyone enters in to your web, he could never return. Oh! God, I’ll not do that, at all.

SPIDER| My web has many windows. You can choose anyone. Why you are fling here and there. Come here babe, sleep here peacefully. It is swinging in the air.

FLY| I don’t need to swing myself in you net. Hearing your sweet words if I change my mind, I have to die like others. I go there and sleep, then that I can’t getup from that sleep again. I don’t want that kind of help from you.

SPIDER| Why you are thinking like that? I arrange a lot of foods for dinner. We’ll dance, sing and laugh here. Forget your all head ache.

FLY | your offer will not make me crazy. I am not hungry. I understand your dirty politics.

SPIDER| Dear, Fly you are very beautiful and sexy. Your eyes are made of a lot of diamonds and winds are colored with the seven colors of Rainbow. Use your six feet and come to me.

FLY | My heart is beating. (Why not I try once to go there?) Dear, Spider please saves me.

 

Marriage needs attention!

People don’t want marriage because they have lost touch with our spouse; really the bond that was there has been broken. We can’t do that if we are ignoring our partner. If our marriage is marriage less or we are having marriage occasionally it is time to bring romance back into the bedroom. We always criticize our spouse. We disapprove of our spouse because we charge them for the disarray of the marriage. In effect we are living in our partner’s mistakes. No doubt we frequently condemn them.

We are too associated to the mistakes of our partner, and so disconnected from the relationship of marriage! We compare our partner to others and we think our partner never measures up. Comparing is wrong. Don’t compare our partner to other people. We try to change our partner and it doesn’t work. Marriage needs attention. If my partner has been nice to me this week, I will give them a present, but if they we’re naughty, just forget it. May be tomorrow, if we’re nicer to me.” This conditional marriage-love dilemma in marriage is all about learning to give of our self even when we don’t want to. Couples love selfishly because they do not have the knowledge to love properly. They love the way they have been taught to love. What is love? Lust is a marriage, while love is not. Love sometimes takes years to develop. Bottom line, love is a development of ones self through the growing process, and then learning to practice that love to those who are important to you. It is a continual growing process that we learn to develop with time.

To give is to love, and to love is to give. Giving can only come from a heart and mind that is free of selfish precedents and self-seeking based love. Without God’s support in the marriage, couples are essentially utilizing their self-seeking love in the marriage, which in the long run cannot sustain a healthy and productive marriage.

If we are living in sin, then we do not love our self. Resent-filled hearts cannot love, it is impossible. Surrendering our guilt, resentment, angry feelings, and sin to God will free us from behaving selfishly and rebelliously toward our partner in the marriage. If WE our in need of life, we certainly cannot give life to another.

 

SOME FANTASTIC IDEAS FOR A ROMANTIC EVENING

I speak to quite a lot of women who complain that their husband and boyfriends don’t arrange them a romantic evening like a few years back in their relationship. It’s become such a familiar grieve that I started asking men why this was so. I never did get a satisfactory answer but instinct tells me embarrassment plays a large part in their reluctance! If this is true then I have a suggestion that should satisfy you both- man and woman. One day I want you to clear your living room and well- decorate it, set up a glitter ball or at least some colored lights, rent a tuxedo. Wait for the door bell.

When your partner comes home, say after a hard day at work- greet her at the door with roses and smile. No matter what her age, most women find big band music terribly romantic, so you may want to scare up some Glenn Miller tunes. This idea scores 10/10 (ten out of ten) in Truly Sappy Romance evening. But trust me; she’ll surely love it.

Some time it is necessary to see your lover with new eyes. The best ways I know to recovering that freshness are 1. Avoid ignoring her and 2. Look at her as the way we used to see each other. I’ve known many a man and a woman who not a keen appreciator of what is beautiful about the world. So, you can find out the best quality of your partner and every people in the world have some kind of individuality and beautifulness.

Give it a try and don’t utter any kind of deficiency related to your partner. Take her for a surprise trip to the playground, for instance. Enjoy the game whatever she like or you like.

Around sunset the public play ground become a deserted place and both of you will get a very romantic evening. It is a good idea to go to a station-restaurant at late night and buy some chocolaty ice-cream for her. Get inside in you car and shear the ice-cream with her. Can’t afford to go to Hawaii? Try using a little imagination and ware a flowered shirt, hang a paper moon in the living room, play some Hawaiian music and take come county drink in halved coconut shells. It is rally full of comedic- but romantic!

Instate of taking a bath by candlelight, try taking a bath in complete darkness. Sometimes by not being able to see something, we experience the essence of it more keenly. Your sense of smell, of touch, will be heightened dramatically. The sloshing of the water and the roughness of your bath towel, the dewy softness of her skin all are true sensuality for a romantic evening. Have fun! Remember, romance is not for the humorless heart.

 

Kama Sutra, The Greatest Sex Book of all Time

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The Kama Sutra is a famous work of ancient Indian literatures in Sanskrit. It is all about a systematic study of various sexual techniques for having fun in sex. It was the first scientific study on sex in India. An Indian Pundit, Vatsyayana wrote this book around two thousand years ago. This book was translated in other languages like Arabic, Turkic, and Urdu. Till today, it is one of the best books in the world on sex science.

It was a result of some fundamental research on sex by the author in ancient time. The Kama sutra is very helpful in any kind of study on sex in modern time also. At the acknowledgment of the book the author, Vatsyayana told that, the knowledge he shared in that book was collected from the research of his students. This book had nearly one thousand different chapters to explain almost every precious tip on sex. As it was so big in size, so another author summarized the book in nearly 500 chapters. The summarize version of “Kama Sutra” was divided into seven parts. Different authors of primeval time tried to write on “Kama Sutra” for generalization of the subject of the book. The reason was that, the matter was not understandable by the common people. For a long period of time, people don’t give any importance in this book. In the British period, the book was translated in English and was admired by many specialists as a valuable resource on sex. “Kama Sutra” has become a subject of research in recent time. Sex experts of modern time use their personal experience to illustrate several parts of that famous book. These kinds of book are available in any local bookstores. The original “Kama Sutra” is an antic collection. The illustrations are useful for knowing the basics of sex. They are really resourceful reference books to start any discussion on the subject of sex.

 

As sex is a matter of privacy to many of us, a book on sex is essential to learn generally about sex. When you and your partner both are seem to be unknown about sex technique, the enjoyment reduces day by day. Any guide or reference, in this situation is very helpful. They tell us, how a couple make their sex life more enjoyable without using a single monotonous method again and again. Modern couple use some kind of magazine published in local language. But those references are not always reliable resources.

Except some standard magazine (like “Cosmopolitan”), the magazine issues are full of huge mysterious articles by unknown men and women. In Kama Sutra, we get a pure combination of instructions from modern sex science, fitness and psychological all together. According to “Kama Sutra”, men and women were divided into several sexually strong groups depending on their body structure. There were some specific combinations of groups, which were rated very high for complete satisfaction in sex. Instructions were available in “Kama Sutra” for the better technique of sex stimulation. Learning every instruction and applying all in you living is foolishness. Keep your eyes, and your ears open for any inoffensive way to start a research on sexual matter

 

A worst cheater’s story

 

There was a chat between Harry and Xenia in the last night on the internet. From that time, she experienced an extraordinary need for Harry, again and again. Harry told her a lot of charming words over the mobile phone. Harry said, “You are kissing my lips, and you body and mind is just wavering in my arm”. That time, she answered, “I am missing you Harry- Come to me please”. “Dear! Take me to the higher” she added. These kinds of sentences have some emotional meaning for them. But, Xenia had an urgent need for Harry. She was spending a lot for her cell phone bills. Her heart and body were ached by Harry’s words. She could not forget a single word. She always went to Harry at the weekend. She felt herself free and safe.

One night, it was very late. Xenia had driven her car for several hours. She was feeling tired. She was standing alone in front of the Harry’s House and was knocking at the door. It was September and the weather was freezing. She had not seen him for a long time. Hallow, Harry, how do you do? Xenia’s sexy body was energetic for Harry. She was constantly watching Harry. At a standstill, she was waiting for the right moment.

Harry felt no hesitation to close his hands around Xenia. He took her in his arms and showed the muscle to bring her onto his bed. Xenia was not nervous. She was taking it usually. She knew Harry’s eyes and it was constantly looking at her body. He was slowly removing Xenia’s dresses. It was slightly hot inside the room. Xenia was speech less. She uttered nothing. But, her sweet smile of pleasure was making Harry crazier. “Sweet heart, you are clod now, give me a chance to make you hotter” Harry said. He also slowly removed his cloth. “Can you remember when you have first naked for me?” Xenia asked to Harry. He was surprised. “Why you are asking this?” he said. Xenia was looking at his necked body. She remembered that night. They were in the final year of their high school.

Harry and his first girl friend were in love. Harry was Xenia’s love at first glance. Harry and that girlfriend were married. But, Xenia could not forget Harry. She always went to Harry for her urgent need. Harry took a special place in her heart. Xenia could not understand the relationship. Harry behaved just like a pet. Xenia helped Harry to take off his shirt. Both of them slimed at each other. They got their answer at that smile. Her hands were slowly moving over Harry’s node body. “Your body is a gorgeous as it was earlier” Harry said. Xenia closed her eyes to enjoy the pleasure. For that moment she reached at the vulnerable stage of love. They were sensually kissing each other.

 

Harry’s wife, Jessica was out of station for a couple of weeks. He assumed that there was no chance of her arrival. Xenia and Harry were having their pleasure in the bed. They forgot to close the entrance door. She reached at home with their only daughter, Sheena. She was 14 years old. She loved her father like other children. Jessica and Sheena found Harry and Xenia in his bedroom.

Jessica was stunt and she was senseless. But, Sheena took it normally and told her father to wear his cloth. She dialed the doctor’s telephone number. “Sorry miss, we just interrupted you.” She said to Xenia and gently requested, “You may leave now, and don’t forget to meet my daddy in any other secrete place”.